My sister, Pam, channeling Miss Marguerite as she arranged the design
for the mailbox at the Aldridge-Holland wedding, October 2009.
Flower arranging ranked high among many of Miss Marguerite's talents. Honestly, she did the most beautiful designs I have ever seen. They were featured regularly at weddings, dinner parties, The Highland Club and almost every week on the altar at St. Paul's. Whenever she would don her beret everyone knew she was about to weave her magic on those roses and hydrangeas! In her later years she agreed to design the altar arrangement for my sisters wedding. Pam and Tim were married at St. Paul's. My Mom knew Miss Marguerite was more than familiar with the setting and could handle it with ease. In an effort to soak up the beauty of the small church before the guests arrived Mama decided to go take a peak. Much to her surprise and dismay the altar was BARE! If memory serves me correctly (as it had not done for Miss Marguerite that day) this necessitated a rather urgent call up to Estill (by land line of course) and Mother personally chauffeured her to and from Capitola that day. The flowers were, as you might have guessed, breathtaking.
Revelers sharing 'the cup', New Years Eve, 1990
The group reconvenes in March 2010!
Mary Helen and I carry on many of the same traditions of Marguerite and Ruby. We both still cook from the pages of the Delta Gourmet (only last fall Mary Helen served
me Mrs. McKamy's Eggplant Creole, page 89,) we adore entertaining (and being entertained by one another,) and we continue to break bread together and share 'the cup.'
The modern day Ruby and Marguerite! Mary Helen and I at her
wedding in October 2009.
EGGPLANT CREOLE
1 medium eggplant
4 TB butter
2 medium onions, chopped
1/2 tsp paprika
1-1/2 cups tomatoes
3/4 cup cracker crumbs
1-1/2 cup soft bread crumbs
3 TB melted butter
3/4 tsp salt
1 medium bell pepper, chopped
1 clove garlic, crushed
Basil and Marjoram
Melt butter and cook onion and pepper until yellowed and soft, but do not brown. Add tomatoes, cooked and drained eggplant, breadcrumbs, garlic, salt and paprika. Mix thoroughly, add a good pinch of basil and marjoram and taste for seasoning. Put in casserole, top with cracker crumbs and 3 TB melted butter. Cook at 350 degrees for 20 minutes. Serves 8 to 10. This recipe appears in the Gourmet of the Delta courtesy of Mrs. William McKamy.